To many times we as Christians are always looking to the next place or new level with God. NEVER taking the time to enjoy or recognize that we are right where God wants us to be, right now, at this time, with these people. In turn, We miss the lessons He is trying to teach us, and don’t learn, nor acquire the wisdom that God wanted us to learn. That wisdom from walking through that time to help hold us in the next level or place with God.
Then when we fail at the next place or level we blame God!  When it was our fault for racing through the process and learning nothing. Stop blaming God for your selfishness.
Just sayin!?